The Return -

5 Months Guidance

A five-month 1:1 coaching container for people ready to rebuild their inner foundation — moving out of survival patterns and into a steadier, more authentic way of living.

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Inner safety is the foundation for real change.

You already know how to push through.
You have tried to relax, slow down, or do less.
You may have tried therapy, coaching, or self-help — and yet, you still feel stuck in cycles of stress, overwhelm, or exhaustion.

That’s because the work most people try to do starts above the level where the real patterns live. Your nervous system has been running the show — deciding how much energy, ease, or safety is allowed. Until that baseline shifts, nothing truly changes.

The Return meets you here.
We rebuild the foundation first, so growth, clarity, and authenticity can actually take root.

Why I created The Return

For decades, I lived with anxiety and overwhelm. Eventually, my body and nervous system couldn’t keep up. I reached a point where I could barely function or work, and at times was completely bedridden.

It was then I realized: my system didn’t feel safe.


I had learned how to survive, but not how to feel steady, grounded, or at home in myself. Nothing I tried worked until I rebuilt that foundation from the inside out.

I searched for answers, experimented with my own system, and trained in psychology, somatic coaching, and hypnosis. The Return is the result: a step-by-step, lived, and integrated approach to creating inner safety — the true baseline for lasting change.

Who this is for

This program is for you if you:

  • feel stuck in stress, shutdown, or emotional exhaustion

  • have tried therapy, coaching, or self-work but still feel unsteady inside

  • want to feel more present, grounded, and connected to yourself

  • are ready to take responsibility for your healing and show up consistently

You don’t need to be perfect.

You do need to be willing.

How The Return works

Over five months, I guide you step-by-step through lifestyle, body awareness, and emotional integration work — the same practices that helped me recover and now form the core of my professional approach.

The Return combines:

  • lifestyle adjustments

  • somatic (body-based) awareness

  • subconscious and hypnosis work

  • emotional integration and inner safety practices

So that change doesn’t collapse when life gets challenging. We rebuild the foundation first — then everything else follows.

Starting again in February

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What’s included

This 5-month program combines educational resources, personalized sessions, and ongoing support to help you make sustainable, deep-rooted changes.

01 – Lifestyle Reset & Neuroplasticity Training

Build a more supportive foundation for your nervous system and daily rhythm


• Lifestyle recommendations for regulation
• 1:1 session to assess patterns and set direction
• Access to The Shift neuroplasticity practice
• Weekly WhatsApp support

02 – Somatic Grounding

Reconnect with your body and begin unwinding stored stress


• Somatic practice videos
• 1:1 somatic session
• Weekly WhatsApp support

03 – Subconscious Work

Gently access and shift deeper patterns


• 1:1 hypnosis session
• Personalized 15-minute hypnosis audio
• Weekly WhatsApp support

04 – Authenticity + Human Design

Understand your natural way of being and decision-making


• 1:1 Human Design reading with Emily Gessner
• 1:1 session on authenticity and shadow work
• Weekly WhatsApp support

05 – Self-Attunement + Inner Safety

Strengthen self-trust and emotional steadiness


• Inner safety & self-attunement practice
• Closing 1:1 integration session
• Weekly WhatsApp support

What my Clients say

“Since being on The Return I truly have felt a sense of returning back to my true self… for the first time in my life.”


— Nora, London

For the first time, I experienced what it must feel like to have a regulated nervous system.”


— Gloria, Berlin

About Me

I’m a Master’s‑level psychologist (graduating with top honors), a trained hypnotherapist, and somatic coach who has personally walked through and healed from chronic fatigue and long-term stress. I draw from both my professional expertise and lived experience to offer a deeply integrated approach that taps into the subconscious mind, the body’s wisdom, daily habits, and mindset shifts.

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1:1 Session with Emily Gessner 

This session is led by a certified Human Design Reader whose journey into this powerful modality began after experiencing a profound burnout in 2022. That pivotal moment inspired her to leave behind a life that felt misaligned and instead step into her true energy and purpose. With deep compassion and lived experience, she now guides others in understanding their unique energetic blueprint — helping them reconnect with their natural rhythm, decision-making style, and authentic self.

A 5 Month Journey Back To Yourself

€1,990* – for the full 5-month experience

Flexible payment plans are available if needed.
Students may be eligible for a reduced rate.

*Price includes tax.

The Return is designed to meet you exactly where you are. Over five months, I’ll guide you step-by-step through the lifestyle changes, body awareness practices, and emotional healing that made all the difference in my own journey — and in the work I do as a psychologist, hypnotherapist, and somatic coach.

The guidance, tools, and personalized support included in this program are worth €3,500–€5,000 — I offer it at €1,990 for women ready to commit to doing the work and rebuilding a foundation that truly supports them.

What my Clients say

“It felt like a fast-track to embodiment and integration of the ideas I’d be intellectualizing and yearning for.”

– Mollie, New York City

“Working with Sonja is truly transformative.”

– Shiva - Switzerland

“Sonja helped me to recognise clearly which issues are important to me in relation to my self-development and guided me to approach them with love and understanding.”

– Ana, Berlin

“Sonja's somatically informed guidance and practices, as well as tailored approach towards my needs have shed light on aspects of healing I have been missing.”

– Paulina, Berlin

FAQ

  • All sessions take place via Zoom and each session is 1 hour and 15 minutes.

  • No prior experience is needed. Everything will be fully guided and adapted to your pace.

  • Around 1–2 hours per week is ideal for the practices — this may vary depending on whether we have a session that week.

  • While every journey is unique, many clients experience:

    • deeper groundedness

    • a more regulated nervous system

    • a clearer understanding of their patterns

    • a stronger sense of authentic self

    • increased confidence

    • more internal safety and awareness

  • You’ll have full access to all program resources for 6 months, giving you plenty of time to revisit the practices, integrate the teachings, and continue your growth at your own pace.

  • Yes. All sessions are handled confidentially, and all messages remain completely private.

  • Yes. You can book 3-session packages for ongoing support, or join the Return Again container if you want to continue your work in a more integrated way.

  • Somatic work is a body-centered approach to healing that helps you reconnect with your physical self, calm the nervous system, and release emotions stored in the body. Many of us live in a constant state of stress or disconnection — especially after burnout, trauma, or chronic illness.

    In our sessions, I use gentle, accessible practices I’ve found deeply supportive in my own recovery from chronic fatigue. These include guided awareness and nervous system regulation techniques — all designed to help you feel safer, more grounded, and fully present in your body again.

  • Hypnotherapy is a collaborative process that guides you into a calm, focused state — similar to a daydream or deep relaxation. You’re fully aware and in control the entire time. From this state, we can gently access the subconscious mind — the part of you that holds deep-rooted beliefs, habits, and emotional patterns.

    This isn’t about being “hypnotized” or losing control. It’s about creating the right conditions for insight, healing, and transformation. Through imagery, gentle suggestion, and inner exploration, we begin to shift what’s been keeping you stuck — so new perspectives and possibilities can emerge.

  • No — while I’m trained in psychology and bring a deep understanding of the mind to my work, what I offer is not traditional talk therapy. I work as a psychological coach, combining intuitive pattern recognition with somatic practices, hypnotherapy-inspired techniques, and energy work to support emotional healing and self-awareness.

    This approach is more integrative and experiential than conventional therapy — it’s about tuning into both mind and body to create lasting shifts, rather than only talking things through.

    Please note: This work is not a substitute for psychotherapy, psychiatric care, or medical treatment. If you’re in crisis or need clinical mental health support, I encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional.